Don't flame the messenger, but here's more proof that SOME nighttime crying won't harm your baby -- and actually may help the whole family by boosting mom's mental health. A big shout-out to mom's health advocate Katherine Stone for being on-record about this hot-button issue. She risks backlash, but she does it for the health and well-being of families and babies. Kudos to you, Katherine!
The bottom line is this: Neglect, hostility, and abuse DO hurt babies. Blowing off some steam to settle down for a better night's sleep DOESN'T. Of course, individual personalities and circumstances make a difference: Pick up and comfort your baby if she's sick, super-scared, or if she has an unusually sensitive temperament (or, if you have a crying/barfer, like one of my kiddos. Who wants to be up all night AND clean a barfy crib?) Those who want to argue can take it up with the respected journal that published the research today, Pediatrics.
Judging parents for their reasonable decisions about their own children is NOT good for families and babies. So hurray for more proof that this controversial parenting decision doesn't deserve the attacks it often gets. Parents and children who get more sleep are happier AND healthier. That's nothing to cry about.