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"Cutoff" Birthdays & Kindergarten Readiness: How to Decide?


Dear Dr. Heather,


My daughter turns 5 right before the “cutoff” age for kindergarten – so she’ll be able to attend, but I’m not sure she’s ready. Should we have her start this fall, or wait another year?


Sam in Philly





Dear Sam,


All over the country, parents are going through the same dilemma. For many, like those with “early born” kids, the decision is easy. For others who have “late-borns” (like yours, and my fourth child -- an October baby) -- or for those who’s kids are a tad behind, developmentally -- it’s a tough call. There’s no “magic” test for readiness, and no single developmental accomplishment that means your child is 100% ready.


Here is my basic Kindergarten Readiness Checklist of the areas I consider essential to success in the fall:


  • Enthusiasm about learning

  • The ability to speak understandably

  • The ability to listen and follow instructions

  • The desire to be independent

  • Playing well with others (most of the time)

  • Willingness to separate from parents

  • Basic letter and number recognition

Here are 3 steps to help you make your decision:


  • Have a basic “Kindergarten Readiness” test administered at your intended school. There are many such tests available.

  • Discuss the results -- plus the above readiness checklist -- with the important adults in your child’s life, including prospective teachers. Your pediatrician can help too.

  • Revisit your decision over the summer. A child who’s not ready in the spring might quickly become ready in the summer.

Consider YOUR child’s readiness, and make the decision independent of the “trends” in your neighborhood. Ignore the tendency to “go along with the Joneses” – whether to “hold back” or “push ahead”. Whether your kiddo starts kindergarten this year or next is irrelevant compared to the fantastic developments that he’s gone through in the past 4 or 5 years. Remember that tiny newborn bundle they handed you that day 4 or 5 years ago? Look at your baby now! Good work, Mom and Dad!

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