Focus on what she IS doing right. Praise her mightily when she behaves "like a big girl who knows how to wait for her turn so nicely".

I've gotten a lot of traffic lately on Strange and Sudden Toddler Fears. I've written on this before (and included a link at the end of this

On the behavioral side, you're right, it's not about "potty training" per se, but it IS about his sense of control and mastery of his own bo

My toddler smears poop everywhere, what do I do? So yes, dear readers, it's time for yet another poop-smearing post